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Thank you so much for these! Between this and previous years' recommendations, the teen's stocking is nearly done.

As for rhubarb soap etc.--I am also obsessed with that soap and all things rhubarb; I have a nice Jo Malone scent ("tangy rhubarb cologne") which comes close to the soap, but isn't quite it. My (doomed) one true love is Hermes eau de rhubarbe ecarlate: it smells like utter rhubarb perfection but fades in about 4 minutes.

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omg, jen, because of you I ordered myself a sample of that perfume! it hasn't arrived yet, but I'm excited.

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Yay!

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While you’re waiting for your vaginal estrogen, you could always fall back on Twinings Menopause “Cool Moments” tea. Add that to the gift list, folks 😂. https://open.substack.com/pub/lucysweet/p/not-such-a-cool-yule?r=3c75m&utm_medium=ios&utm_campaign=post

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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Omg. That was so good.

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I thought your sense of humor would jive with hers (not that I know either of you except via your writing)! It's one of the funniest newsletters, and if I knew how substack worked I would have shared it more elegantly than a link. To more wicked humor around menopause!

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We were entering our puzzle era last Christmas, but the cats, the goddamn cats, they knock the pieces on the floor or they just take them somewhere... else. Maybe I should get one of those puzzle mats? 🤔

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Oh we have the same problem all the time. I don't have a solution, besides kissing them a lot on their bad foreheads.

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I tried that but they still fuck up my puzzle...

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Maybe give them more treats?

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And NOW it's officially the holiday season!

I look forward to your list every year. Thank you!!!!

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Thank you, dearest Oona!

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Since you love Blackwing pencils, as I do, you've got to check out St. Louis Art Supply. They have the coolest stuff--pens, pencils, watercolor supplies, paper, EVERYTHING. I don't work for them, but boy, oh, boy, do I love their store! They sell in a brick-and-mortar place and on line. Thank you for all the many many many suggestions. https://shop.stlartsupply.com

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Thank you for this!!

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okay, I will!

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I love Eeboo puzzles. You should check out Surf Shack puzzles for a similar vibe.

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Thank you!

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Thanks for the fresh ideas, I always struggle with stocking stuffers for my adult children. (I tried to stop doing stockings for them, but there was a revolt…I would advise others to think long and hard about setting an age limit to stockings early on. Use the savings for a trip to Europe!)

This year I stumbled on Field Note’s D&D notebooks. I am very excited to have found a non-gift-card gift for my favorite teenager!

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It's weirdly challenging to find that sweet spot between, like, Elmo stickers and THC gummies.

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Ty for this. I went to the last link on kids stuff: here. It mentioned a Chile tortilla bake recipe for Christmas Day and Rosemary Maple popcorn recipe. I couldn’t access either one. It took me to a Disney site-same one, for both. Bummer! I was hoping I was really onto something! Yum!

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Oh, Julie! Yes. They're all on my old blog: https://benandbirdy.blogspot.com/p/recipe-index.html But let me know if you can't find them there! xxoo

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Ty so much! I’ll check 🙂

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Love this-and the Samantha Irby shirt 🤣! Been trying to find new games for my first grader and was THRILLED to find your 2010 list here! The legume game looks perfect ❤️

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oh Bohnanza? It's a wonderful game! We played it again last summer in a pub in London with my grown kids and nephews and it was even better than we all remembered.

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Being the young age of 60, you had me at “vaginal estrogen cream” but what I got was so much more. I felt like I stepped into your personal life complete with pictures! Thank you so much. I bought a couple of books from your links and I plan on giving a couple of books away, etc.. sending cyber love. I found you thanks to substacks trending now list! It was serendipity!!

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Thank you so much for this! xo

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Thank you! Such great gift ideas. So happy to know about the gluten free chocolates especially.

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They're so good.

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Thank you for sharing these awesome ideas!! Love your writing!

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thank you!

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The Samantha irby gift. Oh man oh man oh MAN! ❤️😂

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ha ha ha ha!

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I am obsessed with connections and I haven't played codenames so thank you! Getting it for the family.

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It's one of my very favorite games.

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💓💓💓💓💓

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Great gift guide, thanks!

No need for Secret Satan with these! 👏

https://open.substack.com/pub/katedarracott/p/life-hack-part-2-secret-satan?r=1nkhs2&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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