Of course you loved Cha-Cha Real Smooth, because you are the best! And as a long-time reader, I now call BS on all the talk about sagging body parts because your picture is pretty much a pin-up situation...
Thanks for this -I enjoyed your Cup of Jo article. I quit drinking in January (like everyone else in the western world- SO unoriginal!) but haven't gone back to it yet. Some of my friends are sober and I enjoy that I can go out to a bar with them (we play trivia there) and none of us need to drink our faces off to have an awesome time. I miss the buzz of a good cocktail or glass of bourbon... but I didn't like feeling like I NEEDED it to have a good time.
I’m right there with you!! I got sick at the end of December and accidentally did dry January, and now I’m still going. I’ve gone to karaoke, a few trivia nights, birthday parties, and a happy hour with my gym where I only knew one person (aka need a drink to feel comfortably usually) and I didn’t once miss having a drink at these events.
I also don’t feel any different physically but that’s likely because I wasn’t too heavy of a drinker as of a few years ago. (Hi hello getting hangovers after 2 drinks!) I do love the buzziness and taste of so many wonderfully made beers, wines, and cocktails but for now I’m ok without it.
Catherine, I saw some of myself in that piece. Thank you for writing about this experience with such humor and honesty. I love drinking but I know better and am giving myself the love and grace to get to where I need to be. Your piece of writing has stuck with me. Love and light to you on your journey.
I've experienced 50 years of happy hours. I've also quit drinking for a full year when I wasn't pregnant. Over the past couple years, I've been untangling myself from alcohol (and other addictions). I'm 63. It's my job now. Recovery is work and a superpower. You will find your way. (PS check out Annie Grace's Alcohol Experiment.)
That article was just 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾. And that *must* be the bathing you reference as your fav sexy clothes from the article a couple of weeks ago on CoJ. You are leaping off the page with vitality! I never don’t feel sexy when I’m feeling that alive. Brava!
I’m so thrilled to be here and to be getting regular content! I’ve tried to follow you wherever you go ever since I read Waiting for Birdy when I was pregnant with my daughter. I so appreciate your humor, humility, honesty, empathy — so many things. Around my house, you’ve been known for years as “my blog friend” when I reference something you’ve written — can’t wait to be able to read more! Thank you for sharing your voice with us!
that's a clear and awesome result of me quitting drinking 9+ years ago - I no longer live with the ever-present strain and rending-of-spirit of wanting more. It is a relief.
I loved the COJ piece. Thank you for writing that. I just ordered these De Soi non-alcoholic rose drinks, in case anyone else is interested. Happy weekend, everyone.
Thank you for writing so honestly about drinking. It resonates. And I also loved Cha Cha Real Smooth! Saw it maybe a year ago and still thinking about it... admittedly I have a weakness for young-adult-coming-of-age stories (does that mean I am still stuck in that stage in my 50s?) but loved this one especially much. xo
I can totally relate to the yearning for another drink while drinking an actual drink. THIS is the exact reason I decided to stop drinking! I don't know if I could do your 2 drinks/week routine - I'm wondering if I may become a "drinks only on vacation" person...
I agree. Moderation is too difficult for me. I am going for big social occasions or vacations….Maybe? Still trying to decide but I haven’t drank since January started.
I haven't had a drink since late December but am going on vacation next week - and have decided to allow myself the freedom to see how I feel about drinking, once I'm beachside...
Of course you loved Cha-Cha Real Smooth, because you are the best! And as a long-time reader, I now call BS on all the talk about sagging body parts because your picture is pretty much a pin-up situation...
Catherine, you look so beautiful in the top picture!!
Thanks for this -I enjoyed your Cup of Jo article. I quit drinking in January (like everyone else in the western world- SO unoriginal!) but haven't gone back to it yet. Some of my friends are sober and I enjoy that I can go out to a bar with them (we play trivia there) and none of us need to drink our faces off to have an awesome time. I miss the buzz of a good cocktail or glass of bourbon... but I didn't like feeling like I NEEDED it to have a good time.
I’m right there with you!! I got sick at the end of December and accidentally did dry January, and now I’m still going. I’ve gone to karaoke, a few trivia nights, birthday parties, and a happy hour with my gym where I only knew one person (aka need a drink to feel comfortably usually) and I didn’t once miss having a drink at these events.
I also don’t feel any different physically but that’s likely because I wasn’t too heavy of a drinker as of a few years ago. (Hi hello getting hangovers after 2 drinks!) I do love the buzziness and taste of so many wonderfully made beers, wines, and cocktails but for now I’m ok without it.
Catherine, I saw some of myself in that piece. Thank you for writing about this experience with such humor and honesty. I love drinking but I know better and am giving myself the love and grace to get to where I need to be. Your piece of writing has stuck with me. Love and light to you on your journey.
Oh my gosh, you are the Bo Derek of cold plunging!
many humans are delectable. live in your moment chickie. savor every bong rip.
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Not the point but I love your bathing suit.
I've experienced 50 years of happy hours. I've also quit drinking for a full year when I wasn't pregnant. Over the past couple years, I've been untangling myself from alcohol (and other addictions). I'm 63. It's my job now. Recovery is work and a superpower. You will find your way. (PS check out Annie Grace's Alcohol Experiment.)
That article was just 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾. And that *must* be the bathing you reference as your fav sexy clothes from the article a couple of weeks ago on CoJ. You are leaping off the page with vitality! I never don’t feel sexy when I’m feeling that alive. Brava!
I’m so thrilled to be here and to be getting regular content! I’ve tried to follow you wherever you go ever since I read Waiting for Birdy when I was pregnant with my daughter. I so appreciate your humor, humility, honesty, empathy — so many things. Around my house, you’ve been known for years as “my blog friend” when I reference something you’ve written — can’t wait to be able to read more! Thank you for sharing your voice with us!
that's a clear and awesome result of me quitting drinking 9+ years ago - I no longer live with the ever-present strain and rending-of-spirit of wanting more. It is a relief.
I want to comment to let you know how much that piece on Cup of Jo but I’m not sure what to say. I guess you said it for me.
I loved the COJ piece. Thank you for writing that. I just ordered these De Soi non-alcoholic rose drinks, in case anyone else is interested. Happy weekend, everyone.
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Thank you for writing so honestly about drinking. It resonates. And I also loved Cha Cha Real Smooth! Saw it maybe a year ago and still thinking about it... admittedly I have a weakness for young-adult-coming-of-age stories (does that mean I am still stuck in that stage in my 50s?) but loved this one especially much. xo
I can totally relate to the yearning for another drink while drinking an actual drink. THIS is the exact reason I decided to stop drinking! I don't know if I could do your 2 drinks/week routine - I'm wondering if I may become a "drinks only on vacation" person...
I agree. Moderation is too difficult for me. I am going for big social occasions or vacations….Maybe? Still trying to decide but I haven’t drank since January started.
I haven't had a drink since late December but am going on vacation next week - and have decided to allow myself the freedom to see how I feel about drinking, once I'm beachside...
Ooohh thanks for the college movie, sounds great